Thursday 26 June 2008

Body language sins

Improving your body language!

I know I am repeating myself,but its just not hitting home guys..

Women should be able to wear whatever they choose. Guys would behave themselves.

But men are men, and they are physiologically attracted, and are instinctively drawn to colour and shape, i.e. cleavage, porn, bright colours, fast cars in bright colours (shape again). Now if Brad Pitt is doing the oogling, women wouldn't generally mind. The only woman I know who never has anyone ogle her assets in her presence is Jodie Marsh, former glamour model, celebrity, etc. She says there is always so much of her on show that men can't bare to look. However on a TV show we were filming, the TV company had her all covered up as they were trying to portray Jodie as a serious presenter - there's a message there ladies whatever you may or may not think of Ms Marsh (and she was really great with me but the press are pretty cruel sometimes). A major TV channel says cover up..........

I've put a short video clip on the website for more info on how to handle this delicate matter. business body language tips . In the meanwhile, chaps the onus is on you to concentrate on your eye contact if you don't want to lose business, and ladies, if you want to be taken seriously, show a little decorum.

Get it right and effective non verbal communication can produce more business, help you understand and act upon your clients thoughts, and get you better deals in negotiation, to name but a few of the advantages. Check out what our business body language sessions could do to enhance your performance.

Now this weekend, I have a special guide coming out. If you are a public speaker wanting incredible public speaking tips and audience participation, I am going to show you exactly how its done on video with a real, live audience. If you are looking to hire a great public speaker, I have something for you as well.

See you soon

Elizabeth

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